What it Takes to Alter Yourself

Are you gnashing your teeth, trying to change or alter something?   Does it feel like you’re fighting yourself – and losing?   You probably are. Consider this:   The Equation of Change A person will not change or alter themselves as long as their perceived level of dissatisfaction is less than their perception of […]

Note to my Younger Self

To My Younger self: My good friend Debbie LaChusa has a birthday today, and as part of her birthday musings, she posed the question: What would I like to go back and tell my younger self? It felt so good to answer this question I decided to post my reply here, and then to ask […]

What is True Personal Freedom?

July 4, 2013 American Independence Day     What is True Personal freedom?     True Personal Freedom is being willing and able to show up completely as yourself, who you really are.   Which to me means: Being free of any thoughts that would have me deny who I really am, at a soul level. […]

The Most Important Question

Every result you create in your life flows from the answer to this question. It's a question that you probably don't know you are asking, and which you are answering unconsciously all the time:   Do I care more about  what other people think, or about what I think? Do I care more about how […]


Will your Emergency to lead to Emergence?   I love it when I see a deeper meaning in words, and this morning’s addition to the elegance and truth in words was priceless.   I finally heard the word EMERGENCY in its true light. An emergency is when things get so bad that they just cannot […]

Living a fully connected and engaged life

What is a fully Connected and Engaged life?   Eight years ago I had a moment when I looked at my life and decided to make it different. I was deeply frustrated by what was happening – or more to the point, what was NOT happening. I knew I was “phoning it in” as they […]

FAQ – Asking HOW vs WHY

Asking HOW vs  WHY Yesterday I received this question via email…it's such a great question, I decided to answer it here. May it serve!   Hey, Scout, Thanks a lot for this life changing tool! (My Change the Question video) I love your info, but am a litlle confused which question is more powerful, "why" […]

Dance The Dance of Life

The Dance of Life is an ongoing allowing of what is, in this moment, while feeling grateful for what is coming.   The resistance to what is, is merely one step in the dance. It can stop us, when we choose to let it. Or, we can just remember that it is just one of […]

Finding and Speaking Your Authentic Voice

Finding and Speaking Your Authentic Voice Are you a woman who would like to help to profoundly change the world? Then the Key is Finding and Speaking Your Authentic Voice: your own voice. Consider: Right now today: Of 190 heads of state, 9 are women. In the Corporate sector, 15 to 16% of the top positions […]

Your Own Personal Trance

We are all walking around in our own personal trance all the time.   This thought is from Milton Erickson, arguably the greatest hypnotist who ever lived.   All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. All your internal decisions are self-hypnosis. All of life is self-hypnosis.  You have convinced yourself that things in life are a certain way. […]